The Gift of Friends

Friends for Life!

Life is filled with trials, tribulations, and a whole lot of stuff that can bring us down and as scripture shows, we cannot live a fulfilling life without friends.

God asks us to have good friends who can help guide us through this life on earth.

Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ.

Galatians 6:2

This year, I have had the great fortune of re-discovering a friend who I have known since high school. We have rekindled a friendship flame that the Lord started some 49 years ago. Guided by the Lord, we lift each other up in prayer and we love each other in the spiritual manner in which the Lord blesses among friends.

Sweet friendships refresh the soul and awaken our hearts with joy, for good friends are like the anointing oil that yields the fragrant incense of God’s presence.

Proverbs 27:9-11 The Passion Translation (TPT)

I encourage you to keep close contact with your friends and also to make a re-connection with an old friend. When you engage in developing a lifelong friendship, you will be amazingly rewarded by the kind of love that sustains your life and builds your hope for the future.

Faithful friends are the gifts of love that last a lifetime.

The Greatest is Love

Love others simply because they exist.

How many times have you gone to a wedding and either the wedding administrator or the wedding couple read a passage from Chapter 13 of
1 Corinthians? It is probably because weddings are a biblical sacrament about love and publicly professing our love for our intended mate and 1 Corinthians 13 is the chapter in the Bible about love.

Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always preserves. Love never fails.

1 Corinthians 13:4-8

When couples adhere to the guidance of the elements found in 1 Corinthians, they shall have a love that lasts forever.

And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.

1 Corinthians 13:13

The Lord asks us to have faith in all things and having faith gives us hope that when our heart’s desire lines up with the Lord’s desire for us, then we shall have, without a doubt, all things great and wonderful. But, no matter whether we have faith and hope, when we have love, we have the greatest gift on earth.

Married couples obtain a kind of love that secures a partnership which is ordained by God. This kind of relationship is protected by the sanctity of our Lord most high. It should never be sacrificed or broken by man.  

Eros Love

Eros love is the kind of love that makes our heart flitter whenever we think about someone or stand next to someone we are attracted to. Some people call this chemistry… butterflies in the stomach. Eros love is the kind of love that keeps us in pursuit of our desired partner. This is the dating phase of the relationship. It doesn’t last forever, but it is a valuable type of love because it helps us to be committed to furthering a relationship along until we can get to the next phase of the relationship which is agape love.

In the Bible, the book of “Song of Songs,” written by King Solomon of Israel, is a book filled with love dialog and poems written about the strong attraction between a simple Jewish maiden (the Shulammite woman) and her lover, Solomon, the king. In this book, they talk about their strong desire, longings, and feelings for each other. It is a very romantic book and what is fascinating about this book is that, as intense as it is, throughout the book, the longings and desires of the lovers maintain the true and proper perspective of a God-approved relationship.

Agape Love

Agape love is a self-sacrificing type of love. It is all about respect, serving, forgiving and putting others before ourselves.

If you are fortunate enough to fall into agape love… you have been given the greatest gift of all… to be able to love someone just because you choose to love them and to be loved simply because you exist.

Jesus loves us simply because we exist. We don’t have to do anything but believe in Him and believe that He suffered the ultimate price of death for us.

Jesus showed His love for us by the ultimate sacrifice He made on our behalf.

Imagine being stripped of your clothes and forced to walk through town, being ridiculed; imagine wearing a crown of thorns; imagine being poked and prodded along the road to the place where your enemies would hoist you up and hammer nails into your hands and feet, attaching you to a cross and pushing a sword into your side so that you would bleed out and die.

It’s all unimaginable to me. Just getting a paper cut on my finger is enough to send me wailing. But, Jesus endured much more than a paper cut. He endured excruciating pain and torture simply because He loved us. And, all we are asked to do in return is to love and believe in Him.

When Jesus offered His life as a sacrifice for our sins, He knew it would mean paying the ultimate price of death for us. He knew it would mean the end of His life and it didn’t matter to Him. He did it for us because He loved us so much.

My friends, when we place someone else’s needs before our own, when we sacrifice ourselves for the benefit of others, this is Agape love.

Living to Love

Agape love is the unselfish love of one person for another. It is a brotherly love that corresponds to the love that God has for mankind.

In order to engage in Agape love, we must let go of emotions and live to love.


We must learn to forgive.

First, understand that people are people and people are not perfect, consequently, people are bound to make mistakes.

Even people who profess to love us are capable of saying or doing something that we find offensive. When that happens, first, we must forgive them and then if we feel it is necessary, find out why they did or said what they did. Then, even if we are not satisfied with their answer, forgive them anyway. Why? Because if we are living a Christian-based lifestyle, we know that this is what Jesus does for us.

Jesus forgives us. Thousands of years ago Jesus paid a price for our sins, and that price was death. And still today, He forgives us without questions or asking us to jump through hoops to receive His forgiveness. Forgiveness is ours to receive just for the desire to be forgiven.

In living a Christian-based life, forgiving, even when we do not feel it is justified, is the first and foremost God-demanding act of love we must master.

A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another; as I have loved you, that you also love one another.

John 13:34

Live to love. Live to forgive. Live to receive the blessings of the Lord simply because He loves you unconditionally.

May you be blessed today and always in love.

The Greatest is Love!

Mary The Mother of Jesus

The birth of Jesus in a manger.

The season of winter brings with it a time of year that we call Christmas time. We come together with family and friends and share love in the way of hearty feasts and gift-giving. And, while it is a festive time of year, the true reason for the season is in recognizing the birth of Jesus.

Every year, I listen to a song that is probably my favorite song of the season. This song, “Mary Did You Know?” addresses the woman who gave birth to baby Jesus. This song asks the most profound question of the mother who gave birth to the greatest person on earth – Jesus.

Yes! Mary Knew

Yes. Mary knew that her baby boy would be the Son of God. Mary knew that her son would be our Savior.

In the Bible we read the story of the angel who came to the virgin Mary to tell Mary she was going to give birth to a king:

In the sixth month, God sent the angel Gabriel to Nazareth, a town in Galilee, to a virgin pledged to be married to a man named Joseph, a descendant of David. The virgin’s name was Mary. The angel went to her and said, “Greetings, you who are highly favored! The Lord is with you.” Mary was greatly troubled at his words and wondered what kind of greeting this might be. But, the angel said to her, “Do not be afraid, Mary, you have found favor with God. You will be with child and give birth to a son, and you are to give him the name Jesus. He will be great and will be called the Son of the Most High. The Lord God will give Him the throne of His father David, and He will reign over the house of Jacob forever; His kingdom will never end.” “How will this be,” Mary asked the angel, “since I am a virgin?” The angel answered, “The Holy Spirit will come upon you, and the power of the Most High will over shadow you. So the Holy One to be born will be called the Son of God.

Luke 1:26-35

Who is the Great I AM?

In the song, you will hear the name, The Great I AM. I want to take a moment to explain that I AM is the name God gave himself. You can read more about God’s name by reading the story where Moses is at the burning bush and asks God to reveal his name, God replies “I AM.”

God said to Moses, “I AM who I AM.” And he said, ‘Say this to the people of Israel, I AM has sent me to you.”

Exodus 3:14

In the Hebrew language, I AM is the holiest name for God in the Old Testament.

The Song: Mary Did You Know?

In the following song, singer Jordan Smith, finalist in the television show called The Voice, sings a wonderful rendition of Mary Did You Know?

We Are Blessed

How awesome it is that we serve a mighty God, one who is able to see beyond the surface of who we display, but looks into our heart and sees the goodness of our soul.

There are times in our lives when we are going to stumble and fall. We are far from perfect, this fact we know to be utterly true. There are times when we are going to say things that hurt the feelings of others, times, whether on purpose or by accident, when we are going to do things that cause physical injury to ourselves or others.

Our hopes and dreams, whether pure or dishonorable, will expose our inner soul. We cannot hide from our God who knows every hair on our bodies, who has our numbers written in His book. He knows us through and through, yet, He still loves us, imperfections and all. Our sinful nature was borne into us, but because His son Jesus sacrificed His life to make up for our sins, we can now rise above sin. We can be whole again. We can become pure by our love for the Lord.

This morning I woke up singing this song in my head, “You are awesome in this place, Mighty God…” As I sang this song, I felt the Mighty Spirit of God surround me. And, it felt wonderful. So my hope for you is that as you go throughout your day today, that you may feel the Holy Spirit in your presence. No matter who you are; no matter what you do, you can always come home to a God who loves you. Always!

Our God is Awesome!

A Time for Thanksgiving

Thank you for the bountiful blessings.

Come, let us sing for joy to the Lord; let us shout aloud to the Rock of our salvation. Let us come before him with music and song. For the Lord is the great God, the great King above all gods.

Psalm 95:1-3

As we come together on Thanksgiving Day, gathering with family and friends, let us remember that each day is a day of thanksgiving.

Since the day Jesus died on the cross to save us from our sins, we have plenty to be grateful for. We have been forgiven of much for our past iniquities, no longer bound by our past transgressions. For our confession of faith in Jesus, we have been made new. The past is behind us. We are free to walk with pride, for we are a child of God, worthy to be loved by the most High.

God is with us always and we have been given much by His love for us. And, we shall receive bountifully by our love of Him.

The following video titled “Thank You” is a beautiful song that speaks of the wonderful blessings we have received from God. I think you will enjoy it.

Happy Thanksgiving! May you receive many blessings this day and forever.


The message in this blog post blessed me by helping me realize that I need to slow down a little by saying no more often. I hope it blesses you too.

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Our Defender

Strength comes from God, our Defender.

God is our strength… our Defender!

How I love you, Lord! You are my defender. The Lord is my protector; he is my strong fortress. My God is my protection, and with him I am safe. He protects me like a shield; he defends me and keeps me safe. I call to the Lord, and he saves me from my enemies. Praise the Lord!

Psalm 18: 1-3

Psalm 18 is about gratitude for deliverance and victory. When we are surrounded by evil, we should call upon the Lord. He will be with us, giving us strength to overcome the evil forces of our enemies.

Today’s song: Defender, Copyrights: 2015 Gateway Create Publishing, Kindred Joy Music, Bethel Music Publishing. Performed by Upper Room.

Defender performed by Upper Room

Come to Me All Who Are Weary

A sultry sunset. One of God’s many gifts.

Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and My burden is light.

Matthew 11:28-30

This world we live in can get us down, and it is easy to let weariness sink in to the point that it bogs us down with exhaustion, fear, anxiety, and loss of hope. But, the Lord asks us to take our burdens to Him and He will receive them from us, giving us the rest and peace we need to go on living in this life on earth and forever with Him in heaven.

I like today’s song because it is a good reminder that when I feel tired and can hardly find a way to come out of a slump, I simply need to bend my knee in prayer and lift up all of my troubles to the Lord, and when I do that, He will deliver comfort to me.

Song: Come to Me by Christopher Grundy

Refuge and Strength

When you are feeling down and out, scripture and music can help bring you back to life.

Sometimes, when I am in a place where I am feeling down and out – when I am feeling like there is no hope, I reach out to God. In reaching out to God, I turn to scriptures because I know that scriptures are the words that hold messages from God, and when I read these messages, suddenly I begin to feel better. Suddenly, I begin to feel covered and comforted by the loving hands of the Holy Spirit.

My favorite verse to read is…

God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble.

Psalm 46:1

Listening to worship music is another thing I do to comfort and quiet my soul. A song I enjoy listening to is a song by Lauren Daigle. It is called, “Rescue.”

I encourage you to listen to the lyrics of this song on those days when you feel like life is beating you down and on those days when you feel like you have nothing to gain.

As you listen to the lyrics of this song and as you are comforted by the instrumentation, melody, and soothing voice of Lauren Daigle, you will come to know that our Lord loves you more than you could ever imagine.

He suffered and died on a cross for all of us, so that our sins could be washed away… so that we could be forgiven… so that our souls could be cleansed, and so that we could be worthy of all the blessings He has to offer to us.

So, the next time you are feeling down and out, look to our Father to lift you up. He is your source of refuge and strength.

May the Lord bless you always.

Song: Rescue – by Lauren Daigle, Jason Ingram, and Paul Mabury
(c) 2018 CentricSongs, See You At The Pub, Fellow Ships Music, Flychild Publishing, So Essential Tunes

No Need to Worry

Winding road

We all have those days when we are so exhausted that we don’t even know if we will be able to get through the day. We burn the candle at both ends, we work hard, getting up early and going to bed late, trying to stuff 36 hours of tasks, errands, a social life, and recreation into a 24 hour day. At some point we begin to wonder what life is all about. Doubt and fear begin to etch their way into our minds. We feel tugged in too many directions and have a difficult time figuring out which way to go. We lose focus as we chase after the fame and fortune we so desire. We lose focus as we try to make it happen.

Whenever we find ourselves wandering and floundering through life, worrying if this or that will happen, it is time to stop. Take a break. Take a step back.


Change your goal. Change your direction. Change your thought process so that, instead of focusing on your goals, you are now focusing on our Heavenly Father. Seek His wisdom and guidance for what He wants you to do each day. Start each day and each task with a prayer asking our Father what He would have you do. Trust in the answer. Trust in the results.

Trust in the direction our Father takes you. When you abide in Him, you will see that you struggle less in life because you have given your life’s direction over a God who loves you unconditionally and wants only what is best for you. There is no better direction to go than that.

Praise be to the Lord, to God our Savior, who daily bears our burdens. Psalm 68:19 (NIV)

Trust in God Alone